Sunday, May 25, 2008

Karl Marx: "From each according to his ability, to each according to his needs"

This is the communist manifesto of Karl Marx that I saw on my 2nd brother Sim Che's desk when I was young and I always remembered it and pondered the meaning until I became more aware of the different systems of government; democracy, communism, socialist, and our own brand of Singapore socialist democracy.

I had a nap yesterday from 6pm to 10pm and when I woke up, I went to my favourite kitchen workplace and saw a big NUS package, bigger than the previous envelope from last week.

I immediately opened it and was shocked to read that NUS has "SUPERSEDED" John's offer of dentistry and now offered him Medicine for 2008 academic year. I was puzzled and thought this must be a bad joke or he might have appealed and was some divine intervention. Why did they admin change their mind within a week? Then I realized that John or for that matter any applicant to NUS didn't really have a choice of what they wish to study! It is what and who the government needs.

Within 5 days, they can change your fate and your future to let you be a dentist or a doctor. never mind what your heart or mind or emotions tell you. This is it. The other offer is simply "superseded"

Then the horror and confusion after reading the 1st page, is the second page that says offer to medicine course 2010 academic year. So what is what, I don't really know. Included in the package is the freshmen orientation package, study loans applications, instructions from MOH on finidng surety for his bond to serve the Singapore goverment, to attend briefings etc.


I called John and he too was confused but sounded happy. After he came back, he looked through the package and said he will call the university administration on Monday to see if it is 2008 ot 2010. After all 2 years, or specialization of the mouth & teeth and brains is not so much a a difference, and this is probably another "HONEST MISTAKE"

We will just let John decide what he wants to do. Not that he has a choice. Now if he wants to be a dentist to take over his mum's clinic, he has to go through the appeal process. Which I doubt they bother. This happened in 1977 when Shuh Jen was given Dentistry over medicine and appeal despite having perfect scores. They just didn't want too many females in medicine then. Well, like they say, everything will work out for good, over time.

"From each according to his ability, to each according to his needs" Karl Marx

John is offered Dentisty, our 2nd Dr Loh in 3 generations in the making


John applied for Medicine and Dentistry after his IB results were out last month, as his 1st and second choice at NUS, and a week ago was offered Dentistry, a highly competitive course with only 42 places that required an additional manual dexterity test on top of the 2 round of interviews. Medicine intake has been increased to > 350. For year 2007, it was believed that more than 2000 straight-As perfect scorers manufactured by RJC, HJC, VJC etc applied for Medicine and Dentistry.

He was kinda disappointed he did't get his 1st choice because normaly he would call Shuh Jen like he did when he got his IB results. We had to find out from the snail mail about his offer AFTER he knew about it online and told Felicia.

Funny thing is that before the offer was made, he was unsure, and was asking doctors and dentists about their careers and asked me if he could or should write in to change his application choice to place Dentistry as 1st choice and Medicine as 2nd. We say he should leave it alone and not confuse the system and see and accept "come what may"

Then the 1st offer letter came, and when Shuh Jen and i sensed that he wasnt happy with the offer, I wrote him a father to son to affirm and encourage him. This was what I wrote:

John,

Daddy was elated this morning when the postman came and delivered the NUS letter offering you a place in Dentistry after you finish your National Service.

I am proud of you, and I called you immediately and you told me you knew about it from the web but have not told us and you did not sound too enthusiastic. Maybe you were busy or had a bad hair day. That is the reason why I am writing this to you.

I called mummy and told her and she too was elated and proud of you and asked me how did you sound, and I told her either you were in the office and can't express yourself and sounded normal. Not excited but your normal self. She said it is harder to get into dentistry than medicine, and hence the extra manual dexterity tests that they make all applicants go through. Maybe she is a dentist and she is biased. But during her time, she had 4As perfect scores and they offered her dentistry instead of medicine and she was also disappointed. She appealed and daddy even helped her draft the appeal letter to the minister and we now know that PAP was gender biased against girls in medical profession because some chose to become housewives and tai tais after their investment in training and bond. And so she took up dentistry because yeh yeh would never have spend the money to let her study medicine abroad.

But through the years, we all know that it worked out for the better because she has more regular hours compared to a GP like Dr Neo Eng Kiong, or a specialist like our opposite neighbor who has to go in and out of the hospital at all hours of the day and night. Ngeh Ngeh also bought her a Mazda 323 so that she don't have to live in the hall and drive to school. It is hard work, tough course, but she survived and graduated, even managed to take a trip to USA to visit daddy during her term break.

You know mummy prays every night for all of us and for the whole world and I don't know what she prays for. But I know that we are "covered" by blessings because of her unceasing prayers. And she always pray for a bigger plan and agenda for you. And we must accept whatever blessings comes our way. This may be God's will for you to be a dentist. Only you and God can decide.

We also pondered on your education and the choices you have. You know daddy always would like you to have a US education and be immersed with the experience of living abroad and studying with the best and brightest students from all over the world. I would only encourage you and want you to study in Singapore ONLY if you got into Medicine, Dentistry or Law if you choose to study in Singapore. That was my stand and still my stand. Although you have the additional privilege of studying these courses abroad if you want to because mummy and daddy has planned for it, and have the means to let you do it.

We have pondered on a few other issues and options about mummy's clinic and when mummy told me that our neighbor Julie Yim's daughter who interned at her clinic 4 yrs ago is now graduating from dental school at NUS, I asked her if she would take her in, make her a partner after her bond and hand the business to her to plan her succession and retirement. Mummy has toiled and worked hard all her life and now needs to work less, travel more and enjoy her life. Maybe just praying full time, of golfing. She also asked daddy if she should invest and buy a clinic space after all these years of rental. These are decisions we have to make to hatch our investments and hard earned money against inflation. If you are going to be a dentist and take over her clinic, and her thousands of clients, I guess the decision becomes simpler. You don't have to start from scratch too. And patients usually trust mother and son team, rather than a dentist and locum team. Then she can retire, bit by bit and work when she get sick of traveling with daddy. And with your business acumen, you may not even need to be a dentist forever, but a supplier of dental equipment and supplies and new technologies, or even own a chain of dental clinics like Q&M, or like Drs William Chong and Iris Chong (daddy's NJCmate) , who were both dentists and now own Pacific Healthcare, a listed company. Or a specialist after post graduate training in the USA.

Then you have your girlfriend Feli to consider. We are sure she will be offered a place in NUS or SMU. Have she got news yet? If you stay and study in Singapore, you don't have to go through the hardship and trauma of separation like what mummy and daddy went through to pursue our university education. It is not about the test of true love, but it is just silly and impractical because 2 different person from 2 different families grow at different pace in a radically different environment. In our days there was no Internet, no msn, no video conference, IDD was US$3 per minute and US$1 = S$2.3. So daddy found a way to keep in touch by joining HP as an intern and lengthen my studies, so I get paid more than working in the cafeteria or computer center and get to call Singapore daily free for unlimited time.

It is now your call. Your decision, and one of those decisions you have to make for yourself because it is your life. Michelle chose her, resisted being a doctor (maybe she is smart and don't want the dog's life). Daddy and mummy will support any choices you make.

You can choose NUS Dentistry or SMU Law since those are the 2 offers you have.

Your SATs results will be out today and you can choose to apply to US for other courses you wish.

You will still have a chance to live and study abroad, given that you will probably be able to do further specialization in oral surgery or implants or whatever new technologies evolved in the US.

But fundamentally you need to choose and give up the other. It is not fair, as I know many Singaporeans will want to accept both SMU and NUS and sit on it until they reach the water. This will deprive someone else a place that they may covet or means a lifelong career or opportunity for them. You are lucky to have been given 2 of the most prestigious courses from the local universities. Think through carefully, check your interest, your calling, talk to teachers, friends, and then pray about it and decide.

We are behind you all the way.

God bless you


Daddy



My maternal grandmother and her brother


I have never seen a picture of my maternal grandmother in her younger days. The only picture I had seen growing up was taken when she was in her 60s. She wore black hat on a black background and look stately for her age.

And when she passed away in China when she was in her 80s, I remembered my mum, then 58 yrs old, crying her heart out and offering burnt incense on our field, when I was in Secondary 3 (1973) and living in Admiralty Road East in Sembawang.

When we were in Kunlun Village (my mum's hometown) in 2008, it took us a while to figure out that this woman in this picture was my maternal grandmother and not of my mum. She looked 100% like my mum when my mum was that age (late50s).

My mum returned to China in 1957, one year before I was born, but this picture of his brother, who was working in Hong Kong then, was taken earlier than that. We finally pieced the puzzle and time lapse, because the father of my nephew Dr Liao Ping and niece was just a boy standing on her left.

Notice his brother was wearing a tie and 'western suit' and to be able to work in Hong Kong in the early 50s, he must be quite educated or possess some special skills or connections.

We concluded that my mum's side was more educated and sophisticated than my dad's side. This was also confirmed from the ancestral hall of my mum's side there were 4 imperial scholars from my mum's family lineage that went to Peking to take and pass the imperial exams. Their certificates, diplomas, and commendation/appointment letters from the emperors were carved on wood and survive the ravages of time and communist cultural revolution purging because it was hidden during the turmoil years and safely mounted back on the roof ceiling instead of walls at the ancestral temple at Kunlun village.

Maybe someone in my family will translate what this one says:


Family Portrait with Siew Yoon welcomed home


This picture was probably taken when I was around 3 years old? Which means that my eldest brother who is 12 years old than me (Dog year), is 15 and probably studying at Chinese High School (secondary school) together with 2nd brother Sim Che.

3rd Brother Kee Chieu still looks in his primary school and the only girl in the picture should be Siew Yoon when she was welcomed back to our family after being fostered out at birth.

This must be my parents efforts to re-take the family protrait to include her and welcome her back home, splurged on photo studio cost, and perhaps that explains why all my 3 other sisters are not in the picture. To make her feel welcomed, and special amongst the sons of the family.

I have never seen this picture in Singapore and we salvaged it from Kangtou because my dad and mum probably send it back to their siblings.

How my 17th generation grandfather saved my dad from death at birth

I always remembered this story that my dad used to tell Shuh Jen and me during one of the nights when we were at our first HDB 5-room point block flat at Blk 13, Teck Whye Lane, #25-210 or 210Z before Michelle and John was born. Michelle was conceived there.

His mum was very weak throughout her pregnancy, because the family was poor and she was was undernourished. After her delivery in winter, she was weakened and the baby (my dad) was also feeble, and soon after they couldn't detect the heartbeat of my dad, and he was given up for dead and they were preparing a funeral to bury him. (probably half alive)

Just then, his grandfather, who was a Chinese medicine man or sinseh, returned from a journey and found out what happened and quickly ordered that they boiled water immediately, put it in a bottle, roll it with cloth, and let me dad hugged it and covered him with more cloth.

After a while, he was resuscitated and then could detect the baby's weak pulse. That was how his life was saved. And he always has the life size original painted scroll of this grandfather, our 17th generation patriarch, framed up and hung on our wall when we were living in Teck Whye, as opposed to hanging up his late father's pic. We called him "Tai Kung", which is great grandfather.

John Loh's grandparents: The 19th generation

My dad & mum's picture taken at Jumbo Seafood Floating Restaurant in HK (circa.70s)


In one of their last trips together overseas in the mid 1970s, they visited Hong Kong and Guangzhou where their relatives came to meet them. Travel back to the mountainous region from where they came from took days, and therefore my parents were too old to go back to their village. So my dad, after toiling and working and sending money back to his nephews to rebuilt their ancestral home, a 14-room house on top of a ridge, did not even go back to see it built or completed before he died in 1991.

13th Generation Loh patriarch



14th generation Loh patriarch





Saturday, May 24, 2008

The prized possession


In year 2000, the Loh clan in Kangtou Village complied the family records and pictures, and published "The Big Red Book" that recorded our ancestors for more than 500 years.

According to this genealogy, my dad is the 19th generation, I am the 20th generation, John is the 21st generation. The 13th generation migrated from Northern China and settled in Kang Tou Village, Dapu County, Meixian, about 50 km from Meizhou City, North East of Guangzhou China. The village is now well served by well paved roads.

John was given a copy of the ancestral records by one of his grand uncles and was elated and gave him a Chivas Regal in return. He shall now be tasked to continue his genealogy for his future blood line.

He asked the elders about the naming convention for future descendants, and was happy to find out that his generation's children will have the "Ping" or 'Peace' as middle name. This book and knowledge made the whole trip worth it weight in gold. Given China's one-child policy, I don't know if the future generation in China would even bother to keep the genealogy, so I guess we better salvage it before it gets lost permanently. At least outside of China, and in and from Singapore from the 19th generation onwards.

The 20th generation Loh Ming Chuin Family (1959)

Our humble beginnings and surviving family of 8 ( 2 passed away during the Japanese Occupation in 1941); 2nd Sis Siew Yoon (@Siu Yun) was fostered out to a rich family in Mandai and not the pic.

L-R:

4th sis Winnie Loh Seng Yoon (@ Xin Yun)
3rd sis Vanessa Loh Li Yoon (@Li Yun)
My mum Liew Chion carrying me on her lap
My eldest Sis Loh Pong Leey(@ Mei Yun)
My Dad Loh Ming Chuin
My eldest brother Loh Ge Sor (@ Yi Ci)
My niece Irene Goh, 2 years older than me.
2nd brother Loh Sim Che (@ Shen Ci)
3rd brother Loh Kee Chieu (@ Ji Ci)

During the British Straits Settlement Days, your English translated name would be dependent on the policeman who did the registration of birth at KK hospital and in my case, the Bukit Panjang Police Station, since I was born at a Dr Loh's Bukit Panjang Maternity Home.

The daughters in my family all have Yoon or Yun, meaning CLOUD in Chinese
and the sons have Chi or Ci, meaning benevolence, or mother's love, and this is according to ancestral tablets and tables that was laid down from many generations back.

The Search for our Hakka roots

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hakka

From WIKIPEDIA:

The Hakka (Mandarin: Kèjiā) are a subgroup of the Han Chinese people who live predominantly in the provinces of Guangdong, Jiangxi, and Fujian in China. Their ancestors were often said to have arrived from what is today's central China, centuries ago. It is still a contested issue where the Hakka originated. It is said that in a series of migrations, the Hakkas moved, settled in their present locations in southern China, and then migrated overseas to various nations throughout the world. The Hakka have had a significant influence on the course of Chinese and overseas Chinese history: in particular, they have been a source of revolutionary, political and military leaders.

Hakkas are most commonly found in the southern Chinese provinces, but may also be found in the northern provinces; for example there are television news programs read in Hakka in Xi'an (Shaanxi). The presence of Hakkas is pan-China.

Migrations and group identification

The use of the term Hakka to describe this people is thought to be comparatively recent, dating to the Qing Dynasty (c. 17th century).

Their ancestors migrated southwards several times because of social unrest, upheaval, and the invasion of foreign conquerors, since the Jin Dynasty (265-420). Subsequent migrations occurred at the end of the Tang Dynasty when China fragmented, during the middle of the Song Dynasty which saw massive depopulation of the north and a flood of refugees southward, when the Jurchens captured the northern Song capital, at the fall of the Song to the Mongols in the Yuan Dynasty, and when the Ming Dynasty fell to the Manchu who formed the Qing Dynasty. Some of these migrants did not want to reveal where they were from as under Chinese Laws, a crime of treason committed by one person is punishible by death upon the clan of that person up to nine generations removed. As the locals did not know where the migrants were from, they were referred to as 'guest families'.

During the reign of Emperor Qing Kangxi, the coastal regions were evacuated by imperial edict for almost a decade, due to the danger posed by the remnants of the Ming court who had fled to what is now Taiwan. When the threat was eliminated, the Kangxi Emperor issued an edict to re-populate the coastal regions. To aid the move, each family was given money to begin their new lives; newcomers were registered as "Guest Families" (客戶, kèhù).

The existing Cantonese speaking inhabitants (Punti or 本地) of these areas were protective of their own more fertile lands, and the newcomers were pushed to the outer fringes of fertile plains, despite having migrated legitimately, or they settled in more mountainous regions to eke out a living. People were also able to purchase and sell land. Conflict between the two groups grew, and it is thought that "Hakka" was a term of derision used by the Punti aimed at the newcomers. Eventually, the tension between the two groups (the Hakkas had by then been settled for several hundred years, and could not be regarded as migrants in any sense) would lead to a series of 19th century skirmishes known as the Punti-Hakka Clan Wars (土客械鬥) in the Pearl Delta. The problem was not that the two groups spoke a different tongue. In fact the 'locals' were composed of different peoples speaking several mutually unintelligible tongues, as typical of the Chinese country-side all over China, but they would regard each other as 'locals' or Puntis but not the Hakka.

The term 'Punti' is not however synonymous with 'Cantonese', as a Cantonese in any other part of China, say for example Beijing, would not be able to call himself a 'Punti', as the puntis of the area are the Beijing or Hebei people.

The term 'Punti' is a Hakka word given to the Cantonese by the Hakka people. In Cantonese, the Hakka word 'Punti' is pronounced 'boon-day'.

Over time, the term "Hakka" was adopted by the newcomers to refer to themselves, not least due to the migratory tendencies inherent in their own culture. However, because the term also covers Hakka language-speakers, (in the same way that Punti covered several peoples speaking different tongues) and because the Han Chinese registered as Guest Families who migrated at the time may not have been Hakka language-speakers, and because of intermarriages among Hakka and Punti members (which showed that relation between the two were very good at times), identification as Hakka was largely a matter of self-selection. Through studies of both Cantonese and Hakka genealogies, some Hakka and Punti people with the same surnames claim the same ancestors, although their descendants strongly identify with one group to the exclusion of the other.

The Hakka ancestors are thus but one group amongst many who migrated southwards, becoming linguistically marked by differences yet unified through cultural assonances. Hakka people now are found in the southern Chinese provinces, chiefly in Guangdong, south-western Fujian, southern Jiangxi, southern Hunan, Guangxi, southern Guizhou, south-eastern Sichuan, and on Hainan and Taiwan islands, as well as in the northern provinces such as Shanxi, where there are television news broadcasts in the Hakka language. The Hakka dialects across these various provinces differ phonologically, but the Meixian (Meizhou) dialect of Hakka is considered the archetypal spoken form of the language. Migratory patterns have been established for some groups e.g. in Taiwan, northern and southern migrations from corresponding provinces in China.

Although different, and also not different, in some social customs and culture (e.g. linguistic differences) from the surrounding population, the Hakka are not a separate ethnic group: they belong to the Han Chinese majority. Historical sources shown in census statistics relate only to the general population, irrespective of particular districts, provinces, or regions. These census counts were made during imperial times. They did not distinguish what language the population spoke. Therefore they do not directly document Hakka migrations. The study by Luo Xianglin, K'o-chia Yen-chiu Tao-Liu / An Introduction to the Study of the Hakkas (Hsin-Ning & Singapore, 1933) used genealogical sources of family clans from various southern counties. With population movement, it is reasonable to assume that there is mixing among both the Hakka newcomers and the indigenous peoples, and between the Punti and Hakka.

The Hakkas have a custom of buying the unwanted baby daughters of the Yue puntis in Guangdong, as Puntis favored sons over daughters. These Punti-moys (本地妹) then made brides for Hakka sons when they grew up. Hakka daughters did not enter Punti households in the same way, and there is no equivalent Hakka-mui term in the Punti vocabulary. The Yue punti genes thus entered Hakka populations.


On the road to Kunlun & Kangtou Villages, my mum and dad's ancestral home


Other Links and resources

http://www.asiawind.com/hakka/
http://www.sungwh.freeserve.co.uk/hakga/
http://www.worldhakka.org/
http://www.jyu.edu.cn/kejia/index1.htm
http://www.hakka.gov.tw/mp.asp?mp=1